1. Don't Ask Him Out
-even if you're sure he will say yes, you don't want him to say he was pressured or
anything later on down the road. You can hint at it, but never actually do the asking.
2. Don't Say I Love You-First.
- Ladies, I know we want love but I'm telling you, the sooner you get it started the faster it will complicate things. The guys feel the same way. Just go with the flow and if you like spending time with eachother, great! Just let him say it.. that way he doesn't feel pressured and you know he really means it.
3. Don't memorize his number.
- That's why you shouldn't get a BF with your only way to call him being a landline. As soon as you get his number, save it under his name and push-button call him or text him from his cell.That way, when or if you guys break up you won't be tempted to call and won't find yourself dailing his # when you meant to call someone else !
4. Don't reminisce about your ex.
- No matter how great a time you guys had at this specific mall and saw this specific movie, don't gush about it to your new guy. Believe me- it's the last thing he want to hear. Just imagine him telling the same story about his ex- ugh.. talk about ruining the mood!
5. Don't change him
- Yeah, blue might not be his color, but you don't have to tell him that. It's not like he'll wear that color for the rest of his life. If you don't like his style or the type of music he listens to, you don't like him ! Maybe you should second guess going out with him. Criticizing him makes him insecure and if you change him, you are possibly making him better for the next girl.
6. Don't spend every day together
-Even if you live right next door to eachother and you have the best fun- don't do it. Whether they may want it or not, couples need thier space away from each other. Practice this rule now before next thing you know, you are single and still at his front door, not knowing what to do with yourself SMH.
7. Don't reject his compliments
-If he likes your hair, and you don't say thank you ! Nobody likes a person who is always downing themselves and are negaitive. If you don't accept them, one day you will realize that they have stopped coming.
8. Don't tell him what he wants
- If he says he wants to be with you forever, don't tell him that he doesn't. Of course you know that it might not happen, but it is still nice to hear. If you keep telling someone that they don't mean what they say, they start to really belive it.
9. Don't be jealous
- Nobody likes jealous girl. point blank-not even a jealous boy
10. Don't Cheat
- Karma's a B****.
Follow these rules and you'll be cool (okay)!
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